Things to keep in mind (when attending a Showbiz Gathering)
I am putting up this post just to set everyone’s expectations
when attending a poz gathering. These simple reminders when faithfully abided with ensure that everyone gets to have fun while ensuring one’s own privacy prior,
during, and after the gathering.
Let’s get rolling…
#1 Try to be on time.
Many people complain of ending the event early primarily because people come in
too late.
#2 Be considerate.
A poz gathering is just like any other gathering. We may differ in age,
lifestyle, language, interests, attitude, etc. In short, we can’t force people
to be rubbing elbows with each other.. but be considerate. If someone or something does not please you,
just shove it off and try to have fun. J
#3 The Golden Rule.
If you stumble upon someone you know personally outside the “showbiz” circle,
keep it to yourself. Everyone should protect one’s privacy the same manner you
want your privacy to be preserved.
#4 Try not to be shy.
Approach someone. Initiate a small talk. Earn a friend.
#5 Never purposely
mock someone. If you can't help it, keep it in your head.
#6 Limit “mini groups”. Don’t limit yourself to the crowd that you
are used to. Go around and get to know new people J
#7 Careful with the
jargon. Do not use “poz”, “positive”, “ARVs”, “CD4” or any other terms that
are related to HIV. Please be aware of the following substitute words that we
can use:
HIV+ individual = Showbiz, mutant, xmen, may kulam,
HIV- individual = non-showbiz
ARVs = Vitamins
CD4 = votes (as in vote count)
Hub = school
#8 ARV's. don't forget to bring your vitamins if you're on them already.
#9 Bill sharing.
Bill will be shared to everyone with consideration to one’s actual food and
drinks consumption. An overflow fund might be requested.
#10 Have fun.
